ok, i am feeling much better since the last post (05/22). i got some feedback on the negativity of it, and i agree it was a bit rough. this adoption merry-go-round will bring the whole gamut of emotions to the fore, and we try not to post the negative turns. but this past week was unbelievable. since it has past, i might as well explain what went down.
we have come to realize that Lucy is not coming home till mid 2009. thats a positive estimate. so, we decided to pursue a second adoption thru
she seemed nice, we made small talk... then came the bomb. she said that she found an issue with our application. our religion. even though we were initially accepted, the agency must have over looked the line that stated that we were Jehovah's Witnesses. they do not accept our faith when considering adoptions. it has to do with our stand on blood transfusions. (p.s. we do not accept blood transfusions, but we do accept every other blood alternative out there, which numbers into the dozen area). after explaining that strong memorial hospital is leading the way into non-blood surgery alternatives, and that we are very concerned about staying healthy and pursuing every avenue available to remain alive, she closed her book. that was that. our adoption hopes thru
needless to say, tonya broke down the moment she walked out our front door. that was not the visit we had expected. we really did not expect that we would have been turned down for an adoption based on religion. not in our day and age. not when a child is sitting in a metal cage in a poor nation, and we have a home, a family, a strong moral compass and most of all a ton of love to provide.
i hope whoever reads this can now understand my last post. a man exploding. it seemed to fit the moment. i didnt mean to discourage anyone. we are eagerly and happily pursuing Lucy yet.
Sunday, May 27, 2007
ok, i'll tell
on the flip-side
to spin that merry-go-round, sometimes a good shopping spree makes you feel better. so, off we went. besides the very productive day at the outlets (great deals on holiday weekends), i traded in my xterra and bought a new VW GTI. i love this car. size wise, it is the polar opposite of my xterra, but i think that is why i like it so much. well, that and the turbo charged 200hp 6 speed automatic/sporttronic engine with indy paddle shifters. i got the same grey as the one pictured here. i wanted the mini cooper s to win in this battle, but i did not find it to perform as well as i thought, or as well as this GTI. your homework: i task all of you to get to a dealership and test drive this car. do it for me, then post me your reviews. loves it.
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
dont ask, we wont tell
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
9 months down
Sunday, May 13, 2007
Ok Tracy this is for you: Since you tagged us. I will reveal 7 things about me that people may not know.
1. I love Chocolate Chip Muffins.
2. I get sad when I see old people.
3. Johnmark and I have been a couple since 1994. Best Friends first for 3 years. He finally came to his senses and the rest is history. We will be married 10 yrs. this year.
4. I have a hard time believing I will be a mom to Lucy or ??? someday. I will believe it when I see it.
5. I love sunshine, a day off and a clean house. Great combination.
6. I regret not spending more time with my family.
7. I am a much stronger person than I ever thought I would be.
1. I love Chocolate Chip Muffins.
2. I get sad when I see old people.
3. Johnmark and I have been a couple since 1994. Best Friends first for 3 years. He finally came to his senses and the rest is history. We will be married 10 yrs. this year.
4. I have a hard time believing I will be a mom to Lucy or ??? someday. I will believe it when I see it.
5. I love sunshine, a day off and a clean house. Great combination.
6. I regret not spending more time with my family.
7. I am a much stronger person than I ever thought I would be.
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